Crying Over Bleak House: My Sentimental Journey

RichardIIITomb.jpgThe George Eliot Bicentenary Conference was the main reason for my recent trip to England, but of course I took advantage of having crossed the pond to do a bit of sightseeing. I spent a couple of days in London on either side of the conference, and I also traveled to Leicester a day ahead of time so I could visit the Richard III Visitor Center and Richard’s new tomb in Leicester Cathedral.

My 2012 essay “All the World to Nothing” in Open Letters Monthly explains my longstanding fascination with Richard III and includes a delightfully (or mortifyingly) geeky photograph of a much younger me beside his statue in 1986. I could not quite recreate that picture on this trip, but I did take a selfie next to the model of his head made by experts in facial reconstruction after his skeleton was discovered under a parking lot and then confirmed as his. (It’s a remarkable story; the documentary about it is available here if you’re interested.) The excavation site was protected when the parking lot was repaved and you can see where he was actually found, under the floor of the long-gone Grey Friars Church. Even the intrusively chatty volunteer stationed by it could not completely dispel the haunting feeling of actually standing where his ruined body had lain for 500 years. (Bless her heart, she was just enthusiastic, but she would keep telling me things I already knew!)Burial-Site

I expected to be moved by seeing Richard’s grave, and I was. It has been a long time since I felt the warm partisanship on his behalf that Tey’s The Daughter of Time once sparked: it wasn’t fervent Ricardianism in real time that made this visit emotional so much as being reminded of how ardently I was once involved in it all and feeling connected, through these remarkably concrete (no pun intended!) links between past and present, to my own history. Walking through the exhibit, viewing the burial site, visiting the Cathedral–I was paying my respects to Richard’s memory but also to the person I used to be. It renewed a kind of personal continuity that can seem, living as I do far from my family, away from the sites and landmarks of my own past, disconcertingly fractured. “Where did she go, that girl?” I sometimes wonder; perhaps oddly, there among the stones and relics of a place even further from my old home, I felt sure she was still there.

WindsorThat sense of reconnecting with my former self is part of what always makes time in London feel so special to me. After my trip there in 2009, I also remarked that I felt “renewed” by the experience. This time too I was, as I wrote then,

most moved by those [sights] that most vividly reminded me of Carlyle’s words about Scott, that he had “taught all men this truth … that the bygone ages of the world were actually filled by living men, not by protocols, state papers, controversies and abstractions of men.”

On this visit I returned to some of the same places I went to in 2009 and also in 2011, when I was in England for a conference in Birmingham–including (of course!) most of the same bookstores. I especially enjoy wandering the streets and squares of Bloomsbury, which in their shabby elegance feel strangely homey to me: it’s easy to imagine not just Woolf and her cohort but Brittain and Holtby striding along or settling on a shady bench deep in conversation. I visited Windsor Castle for the first time on this trip, and it is grandiose and impressive; it was thrilling to walk between the towering walls that housed so many historical icons and breathtaking to look down in St. George’s Chapel and see that Henry VIII was buried below my feet. But it felt more personally meaningful just to sit in Gordon Square and be myself for a while, temporarily unencumbered by external obligations or expectations about who I am or what I should be doing, now or next. That freedom is one of the great luxuries of any holiday, of course, and it’s as risky as it is easy to fall into the fantasy that if you could only stay somewhere else, you could magically be someone else, someone you might like a little better, someone who lives (and writes) better than the person you are when you’re at home.

Gordon Square

One of the repeat visits I made on this trip was to the Dickens Museum, which I had visited with my mother in 2009 but not since. I wanted to go back because in the intervening decade I have spent so much more time reading and thinking about Dickens’s novels. In the meantime, too, the museum has acquired the writing desk Dickens used in his house at Gad’s Hill Place:


To many of us, this desk and chair are familiar from Luke Fildes’ “The Empty Chair,” painted in 1870 after Dickens’s death:


Seeing this desk was the first of what turned out to be several occasions when I found myself unexpectedly tearing up. Another was when I stumbled across some original monthly issues of Bleak House at the V&A:


Another was as I strolled the lovely grounds of Arbury Hall, the manor house on the estate George Eliot’s father Robert Evans managed:


We visited other places on our George Eliot tour–a highlight of my trip overall–but for some reason this was the one I responded to most emotionally.

GE-PlaqueBut why? Not just why did seeing Arbury Hall move me so much but why was I so emotionally susceptible to seeing those bits of Bleak House or standing next to Dickens’s desk? I am used to feeling excited when I see things or visit places that are real parts of the historical stories I have known for so long, but I have not previously been startled into poignancy in quite the same way. Is it just age? I do seem, now that I’m into my fifties, to be more readily tearful, which is no doubt partly hormones but which I think is also because of the keen awareness of time passing that has come with other changes in my life, such as my children both graduating from high school and moving out of the house–an ongoing process at this point but still a significant transition for all of us. Also, as I approach twenty-five years of working at Dalhousie, and as so many of my senior colleagues retire and disappear from my day-to-day life, I have had to acknowledge that I am now “senior” here, and that my own next big professional milestone will also be retirement–it’s not imminent, but it’s certainly visible on the horizon.

Silas-First-EdPerhaps it’s these contexts that gave greater resonance to seeing these tangible pieces of other people’s lives, especially people who have made such a mark on mine. Though I have usually considered writers’ biographies of secondary interest to their work, there was something powerful for me this time in being reminded that Dickens and Eliot were both very real people who had, and whose books had, a real physical presence in the world. People sometimes talk dismissively about fiction as if it is insubstantial, inessential, peripheral to to the “real world” (a term often deployed to mean utilitarian business of some kind). But words and ideas and books are very real things, and they make a very real difference in the world: they make us think and feel differently about it and thus act differently in it. Another of my London stops this time was at The Second Shelf , where I held first editions of Silas Marner and North and South in my hands (very carefully!). I described this on Twitter only slightly hyperbolically as the closest thing I could have to a religious experience. In the presentation I gave at the conference, I quoted from George Eliot’s poem “O, may I join the choir invisible”:

O, may I join the choir invisible
Of those immortal dead who live again
In minds made better by their presence …

There’s no question that she lived up to this wish. It’s hard for me not to feel a bit as Dorothea does, though with a more deserving object: “what a work to be in any way present at, to assist in, though only as a lamp-holder!”

Even so, I’m still not entirely sure why it kept making me cry to be in proximity to what one person I spoke with about it aptly called the “materiality” of these writers’ lives. But it seems right to give Dickens the last word on this: “Heaven knows we need never be ashamed of our tears, for they are rain upon the blinding dust of earth, overlying our hard hearts.”

South Farm, Arbury Estate.
George Eliot was born in the upstairs room
November 22 1819


8 thoughts on “Crying Over Bleak House: My Sentimental Journey

  1. Miss Bates August 1, 2019 / 3:30 pm

    What a wonderful post! I too am in my fifties and feel time wingèd chariot with greater poignancy. I think it’s a good place to be, that straddling of decades: on one side, all the hullabaloo of life and establishing the self and career and then, on the other, the years ahead of something slower, more meditative. Yes, even retirement, still not imminent, but definitely standing sentinel and beckoning once in a while.

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    • Rohan Maitzen August 2, 2019 / 9:17 am

      I like that image of being in a kind of between time. I know I have been through other life changes but this phase seems self-consciously transitional in a way that others haven’t, perhaps because, as your comment suggests, it isn’t just about getting even busier or more preoccupied, or not necessarily. Things like having children rather crowd out the opportunity to think about what is happening to your life!

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  2. Christopher Lord (@dickensjunction) August 1, 2019 / 3:44 pm

    We have such similar interests. When I was looking at the tiny remains of Fotheringhay Castle two years ago while studying Mary Queen of Scots at Merton College, we ran into the Richard III Society also on the lookout; intense people they were. And I’ve done the Dickens Museum several times. My most similar experience, however, was handling the presentation copy of A Christmas Carol presented to John Forster by Dickens, autographed, and now in the Forster Collection at the V&A. The colors were so much more vibrant then the best photos I’ve seen; it was a gorgeous book in absolutely perfect condition. I believe I can say I know exactly how you feel, as do others who follow your blog who love to read as much as you do.

    I met some of your colleagues last week at the Dickens Society meeting in Salt Lake City, where I was the surprise final presenter when a the scheduled scholar was unable to attend. I was honored to read small selections from my Dickens pastiche mystery novels, and I’m sure I will never again have such a perfectly suited audience for my peculiar take on Dickens’s work.

    Respecting the passage of time, I am now eleven years post-retirement in my work life, and I also watched as I became the elder statesman (even though I was in my early fifties when I left the workforce). When once I was the youngest this and that; suddenly I was more than a generation older, and someone named Tiffany had a professional job in my organization. As Eulalie McKechnie Shinn would say, “Tempus fugit.”


    • Rohan Maitzen August 2, 2019 / 9:19 am

      That does sound like the perfect audience for you! And what a treat, to handle that presentation copy. (Also, yes, Richard III folks can be pretty intense! But it can pay off, as his skeleton would never have been discovered–and thus many historical questions answered–if it weren’t for one woman’s remarkable dedication to the project.)


  3. Susan Messer August 2, 2019 / 12:24 pm

    Rohan, I know it’s been ages since I’ve read your posts (though my husband subscribes), and I’m so glad that today was the day you arose in my mind prominently enough for me to stop by. This post is beautiful and moving; if possible, you’ve only become a deeper writer/thinker/reader/traveler than you were when I used to check in regularly. Thank you for continuing to do this amazing work. I too feel teary.


    • Rohan Maitzen August 3, 2019 / 10:40 am

      That means a lot, Susan – and I too am glad you stopped by again.


  4. Liz Mc2 August 2, 2019 / 1:10 pm

    This is such a lovely post, Rohan. I have had a number of experiences this summer that have made me think about where my own past selves have gone, or what relics of them still matter (mostly prompted by carting books from the basement to 2nd floor as I swap spaces with my daughter, and wondering why I am still hanging on to so many from grad school days….). My second child is entering Grade 12 and this was the first summer we didn’t go on a whole-family vacation, and I was confronted with the fact that I am on the brink of a new stage of life and need to ask myself what I want it to look like.


    • Rohan Maitzen August 3, 2019 / 10:41 am

      “What I want it to look like” is exactly it, isn’t it. It’s not like absolutely everything changes, but I have a sense of the balance shifting. What will be the new center of gravity? Work, writing, reading, no doubt, but of what kind?


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